In order for a boy to have a sexual interest in the opposite sex, it is not necessary to create a romantic environment with candles. It can happen anywhere, anytime. Erotic wallpaper can appear suddenly while working, walking in the woods or during ordinary conversation.
To the question: "How do we know that a man is aroused? " - Each girl confidently answers that it is noticeable by erection. In fact, not everything is as primitive as it seems at first glance. Psychologists confirm that a woman's desire to possess betrays a man's appearance, facial expressions, body movements. Speech can convey only the information that a person is going to convey to others, while the face and body express the real feelings and condition of an excited man.
To understand that a person is aroused, there are certain signs.
The most proven and accurate way to test whether a guy is horny is to look at the pants below the waist, or even better, with a hand touch.
Erection is the dominant sign of male sexual arousal. When blood clots in the back of the penis, the male organ hardens. In this case, the internal pressure may match the blood pressure, allowing the body to change shape and increase in size.
There is a time when there is no erection with emotional sexual arousal. It is a sign of vascular disease, diabetes, psychological distress or stress.
Nonverbal signals
There are nonverbal cues to the body that speak better about a man's sexual status.
- During the conversation, the boy begins to involuntarily approach the object of his attention. Gradually the distance between the bodies inevitably decreases. Then a light touch of hands and feet will follow. This gesture will not cause active action, it will be almost invisible. But this is how a new love story can begin.
- If a woman is close, a man wants to touch her, hug her. But it happens that circumstances do not allow it and he tries to hold his hands: buttons and buttons open on the collar, hold the tie, turn the button, soften and curl the hair, catch the jacket. With enough arousal, the young man wants his partner to know about it. A man can get excited when he touches her hand or other parts of the body, straightens a woman’s hair, looks for a responsive look, while leaning literally close. Therefore, do not be surprised when an outwardly quiet gentleman suddenly begins to actively assist from the car or serve a jacket. Everything is clear: Pleasant gestures of participation are another way to touch the object of your interest. When sexual arousal comes, the boy automatically starts hitting and twisting the object in his hand, which has the shape of a cylinder. Will it be a pen, a cup, and so on. Sh. This is no longer a signal, but a decisive appeal.
The stage of infatuation
If a man expresses sexual sympathy for a woman, he will definitely mean it by his behavior. If a meeting is held at a restaurant, he will fill a glass of wine and offer food and help sit on a chair and get up from it. He will do all this not only thanks to a good upbringing, but also his actions will be guided by the instinct of the masculine principle - to get an additional opportunity to touch the object of his desire. This expression of concern indicates that the young man is planning breakfast together.
Men's poses
When a sexually interesting girl is noticed, the inner switch of the female heart conqueror moves to the position of the "alpha male". And here begin the movements that tell us about the man's interest: a quick stretch of the abdomen, straightening the back (a sign of good physical shape), turning the shoulders, sitting, raising the legs in a gesture, as if indicating that he has something to offer a woman.
Also, in front of the object of his worship, the boy tries to appear in a favorable light. He straightens, catches in the abdomen, straightens the chest.
Sometimes signs of arousal are read by touching the face (nose, chin, ears). Women also have such gestures. They betray the excitement. Touching the lips or rubbing them uniquely indicates the mature hue of these manipulations.
Physical reactions
- Fast breathing, enlarged pupils, open lips, slightly muffled voice - this is a conditional signal that a man's thoughts are working in a certain direction.
- Slightly enlarged nostrils seem to feel the scent of a woman, indicating an obvious sympathy.
- At the same time, there is thirst, which is associated with an increase in body temperature.
- Noticeable blush on cheeks.
- Refers to the chin, nose, ears. According to psychologists, by stimulating these zones, the boy tries to hide reflex nervousness and autoerotic symptoms. When aroused, facial skin becomes very sensitive to touch.
- When a person conquers passion, he loses control of his gaze and speech. With a blurred look, reddened and pale, even the most intelligent boy begins to wear such nonsense that a girl may doubt its adequacy. It's simple - this is when information is processed that is not sent to the brain at all.
- A sign of an aroused state will also be a shift to the intimacy of the topic of conversation. Erotic association can arise in it when discussing everyday and everyday subjects.
Any person is excited by the visual image. So that a woman is not required to constantly control her erection and listen to her partner's breathing, for fear of losing a moment of excitement, it is worth learning how to interest a man and attract his attention.
And finally, a little advice - during love games, do not turn off the light, because a young man who does not see a girl will not be able to arouse enough and he does not know whether he is ready for sexual exploitation.